What do you think of flirting?

honestly, if you ask me dead on, like rite now, i would say i'm cool with it. as long as both sides are aware that they are no serious intentions. i mean, there must be a sense of detachment when both parties flirt. it ends there.

i guess i am ok with ikan flirting with other females. i trust him, not that i encourage him though ;p (i get jealous often... :) )
i know ikan has no qualms me flirting with other males. he knows i dig him a lot. hehehe
and, although i am against infidelity and what nots, im cool with married ppl flirt with other ppl.
i mean, light flirt, ok? those definitely NOT involving touching and giving outrageous remarks.

lets face it. flirting and being the object of flirtatious gestures gives pleasure. a moment of feeling desirable.
BUT! it has to stop there. it wont be a hint of 'pleasure' if you take it to the next level. nope. sorry. thats just asking for trouble.

i think it is how you handle them, i guess. like i said, it should not get serious, i.e. the object of your flirtatious gestures should not be in your mind for more than a second. it turns to dangerous territory if you allow even a fraction of what was supposed to be a flippant remark and treat it with some importance.

panjangnye intro...

the main story- what if your boss wants you to flirt a little with a person at work? would you be ok with it? would you resign?
to add another tidbit to the situation... what if your boss tu is also your long time friend?

a colleague of mine is resigning her post because her boss (and super long friends) reportedly asked her to ask this guy (old and married) for dinner. threesome of course. 'she' is single and available.

now, do you think the boss here is solely pimping her? OR do you think this boss thinks (as a friend) that this girl should have some fun? (I do not condone extra marital affais, albeit some does)

i personally wont ask my subordinate to do this. nope.
but during office hours, i dont see any harm in smiling and being nice to this guy. he doesnt fall under those 'stupid' people i hate to 'yes' to.

well, this may be too presumptuous of me. i am not and never was in her position. i think i can understand her fear. but i dont think resigning is the answer.

now you know how open i am, huh?