Nothing big but I gotta have this out of my chest.
Me and ikan is quite relieved as we did the TALK with bibik last nite. It was put on hold since forevever! Ok, at first we wanted to test her for 2 weeks, then planned the TALK. But unfortunately, we had this ‘thing’ after a month she was with us and even tho the TALK was crucial that time, we had it postponed.. sbb- ikan was always away and his badminton nites and our macam2 thots that made us procrastinate. I did however, took the cheeky way out and asked my mom to slow talk and what not.
But at last, we TALKed last nite. Fuuhh.. debar babe! Ntah apa2 ntah.. nak cakap ngan bibik pun debar. :p
But I guess all went well. I am satisfied of the things we pointed out. Satisfied of the things she pointed out too.
So, mintak2, pray to Allah that this relationship brings goodness to all- my family and her’s too. Amin.
Ps- thanks to kakak, prema, kaklong, abang + kak asna and my bid- azury for the advices. Tolong doakan yeh?
5 comments:
erm..what was the TALK about?
what's up? menambahkan seram aku utk carik helper
haha. bukannye apa pun. we talked about what we expect from her, what we seen and dislike of her atitude etc. biasalah, nak start trust org.. some more, lain budaya.. payah sket. tapi with everyone's advice, alhamdulillah, ringan sket beban. and die ade point out what she feels- tu yg we liked abt the talk too, kire, we're not the only one talking. cume, harap everything goes well la pas nih :) amin
aku pun pernah melalui saat2 berdebar ni. bukan mudah nak tegur kesalahan org kan?
but it's good that u let her know your expectation of her. kadang2 kita tak sedar apa yg kita buat tu salah.
insyaAllah, everythg will turn out well. aku sentiasa doakan yg terbaik utk kau, anak2 n family.
tu la azury. debar gle. sib baik die ade kasi disclaimer yg 'kakak tegur la kalau kerja saya salah'. okeh. tu kire opening la kan? dr duk diam as tho simpan grudge.. hehe nauzubillah.
tapi so far alhamdulillah la.
another thing yg aku rase helped is byk kan cakap2 ngan die esp when ikan xde. at least i can know her better. so far, bibik ni cam segan2 nagn ikan. i like that :)
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